<p>Hi, for whatever reason my college decided to put 3 girls on the boys floor in a corner, by a storage closet...
This has caused a huge problem in making friends, none of the girls bother to come up here or acknowledge our room. Ontop of it our RAs never hold any events, so I've never gotten a chance to meet any of the girls.
I've known my roommates since grade school and I never expected them to be super up tight, and sadly boring. They have our door shut 24/7.
Also they go home EVERY weekend and don't come back until Monday.
I'm not anti social, I'll freely talk to people when the opportunity arises.
I'm able to move rooms if I wanted to,the only problem is I don't know anyone to possibly room with!
Second semester just started and I thought about possibly going to ResLife to see if there's anything I could possibly do and about my options next year because both of my roommates are going to commute next year.
I really don't know what to do, it's driving me insane not to have friends here.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated! Thank you!</p>
<p>Uh, if there are no girls on your floor, have you considered making friends with the guys? I’m sure they’d love some company, and it’s not like they have cooties or anything… If you’re really against that, stop whining that no one comes to your floor, and go introduce yourself on other floors. If there’s a lounge on each floor, go hang out in a girl lounge and make friends there.</p>
<p>There’s no reason you can’t become friends with some of the guys. Also, you can talk to people in your classes, one of my best friends is someone I randomly started talking to in one of my classes. Unless your dorm doesn’t have any common rooms, chances are there will be people there and you can just introduce yourself to people there. You can also try joining a club, you’ll likely become friends with someone with similar interests fairly easily.</p>
<p>Get out there! Get involved on campus, you’re bound to meet some people you’ll become friends with. People aren’t going to be friends with someone who doesn’t put effort into really getting to know someone! College is supposed to be a fun time, but it’s also what you make of it! Good luck :)</p>