<p>Well I'm not saying my name, and neither his but I'm 21 years old and my roommate is 20. from the beginning of the school year till now I have been trying to become a good friend of my roommate. I've tried to make conversations with him, go out, hang out and everything. but he always have an excuse not to. My roommate is in the baseball team and he recently got a gf who is a cheerleader. Now I don't mind if she stay in the room for a night or two but boy o boy I stay doing my home work on my desk, and all of a sudden they are both having sex while I'm in the room. At that time it was 3:00 in the morning, and had to go the street in the cold until 6:00 am just because they were at it all night. This happens almost everyday since Halloween, and last week I went to bed at 6am because of a project I had to do but man he could have some respect and wait until I wake up to go to class no, he goes at it while I am sleeping and it is driving me insane cause he sleeps on the bottom and I'm on the top, and it is awkward and very disturbing having to wake up at 8am having class at around 11:30 missing sleep and having to sleep on the couch out in the living room. At times when I go to the room she just looks at me and laughs in my face and have more sex with my roommate. Also there is time I get no sleep like for about 2 nights and 2 days straight because of a huge project I had to do and when I finally had to cut class to sleep in about 2 hours of my sleep my roommate comes into the room turns on the tv, the lights, and leaves the room. I get down from my bed turn everything off, and get back up to bed. in about five minutes he comes back turn on the lights, tv, and blasts his music and eye grill me and tells me not to turn everything off. I also don't like the fact that because I'm 21 and he's 20 he has alot of alcoholic beverages in the room and I could get the blame for it. I don't really know what to say to him I feel as if I want to tell him something but I am scared of talking to him, and feel intimidated by him, I also told my best friend about what was going on and he felt so bad that he told my mom what was going on and she called the school and made a complaint about it and now I'm scared because I think that I will get in huge problem, because he is going to think that I am a snitch and now I'm going to be in some big problem. I told the RA what was going on with my roommate, and she did nothing but laugh at my face. Now I feel that I am in a situation where I am stuck, and don't know exactly what to do.</p>
<p>The first thing I would do, is break my giant wall of text into paragraphs. Then, if I wanted answers to questions, I would include a question or two (or several) throughout my post, or at least one at the end (complete with a question mark, to be sure I asked a real question).</p>
<p>“The first thing I would do, is break my giant wall of text into paragraphs. Then, if I wanted answers to questions, I would include a question or two (or several) throughout my post, or at least one at the end (complete with a question mark, to be sure I asked a real question).” Not to be rude gotakun but I have issues with writing. If I was in a place where I would concentrate better I would probably write better but I keep on getting distracted.</p>
<p>I’m just saying that it’s a chore to read a giant wall of text with no breaks. When you first see it, it’s like getting hit in the face with a brick. Just go back, edit it, and separate it into paragraphs…</p>
<p>Wow. Man up already. It sounds like he has dubbed you an utter loser and is taking complete advantage of you. Why do you put up with it? Say something. His opinion of you seemingly so low already you really have nothing to lose. Even if you get in a verbal argument at least it would generate some respect for you.</p>
<p>I’d be jealous too.</p>
<p>tell him to cut that **** out. seriously, I can understand asking a forum for adivce, but YOU need to do something about it. </p>
<p>Dont let someone a year younger than you ruin your year.</p>
<p>Tell him whats what</p>
<p>If you don’t do anything about it, he’s just going to carry on so I’d say something about it.</p>
<p>Choke him in his sleep. Blame it on sleep apnea.</p>
<p>But really, idk. Talk to your RA? Does he smoke weed? Does he often possess large amounts of it? If so, give an anonymous tip to the cops… hehehe.</p>
<p>Also, just don’t leave the room when they start having sex. It’s just as much your room as it is his, and if they can’t find somewhere else to do it (car, motel, home, etc) then tough luck.</p>
<p>Also sabotage his condoms (get a lighter and turn it on, then apply heat to the package so that the integrity of the rubber is ruined. He’ll have fun paying child support for 18 years)</p>
<p>edit: Okay I read through that concrete slab of text more closely. Your RA didn’t do anything? Talk to the hall director. Talk to the director of campus housing. Talk to them every single day until they do something about it. Hell get your parents involved if they’re paying… money talks, let’s just put it that way.</p>
<p>Stop being a ■■■■■, and tell him to stop.
What, you afraid he’s gonna beat you up or something? lol.
If he doesn’t improve and you still can’t tolerate it, then try to get a room change.</p>
<p>Your roommate dislikes you because you do not separate your paragraphs. He hates you for that.</p>
<p>I have removed some posts for inappropriate language. This thread will be closed if there are further inappropriate posts.</p>
<p>If you’re not comfortable addressing this situation face-to-face with your roommate, go to the Housing Dept. today and request a room change for next semester. My impression of the situation is that he doesn’t respect you and nothing is going to change his opinion. Even if you were to “man up” and suggest some compromise to the situation, I doubt that he would take it seriously because it has been allowed to go on for so long.</p>
<p>My freshman year roommate was also very sexually active. But, he was a reasonable guy; if I were sexiled this time, then next time, either he’d go somewhere else or I’d say “no.” We got along fine, and I still think of him as an excellent roommate.</p>
<p>Other guys on my hall had sexually active roommates as well but much poorer relationships due to lack of communication and unfairness. If you’re getting sexiled too often, you need to talk to your roommate about it. The sexilee shouldn’t always say, “No, I’m not leaving,” but at the same time, the sexiler shouldn’t always ask, “Can you leave?” There has to be a balance.</p>
<p>Of course, if you learn how to sleep through anything, then the sex shouldn’t bother you. My roommate eventually learned that I cannot be woken up between 1:00 AM and 3:00 AM, so he actually started having sex with random ladies during those hours. I realized he started doing this one weekend when I woke up around 8:00 AM, saw two people on the top bunk across from me, and thought, “Hmm, I don’t remember anyone coming back last night.” Hey, he never woke me, so “rude” or not, it never bothered me and so I didn’t care.</p>
<p>I’m still a fan of the condom sabotage.</p>
<p>Try some of these ideas:
[Mindgames</a> to play while your roommates are having sex in the next room](<a href=“Findings: - Everything2.com”>Mindgames to play while your roommates are having sex in the next room - Everything2.com)</p>
<p>“Your roommate dislikes you because you do not separate your paragraphs. He hates you for that.” Listen PlattsburghLoser You know that’s really not the point, you’re just trying to get smart with me. If I was you I’d mind my own business about my writing I never knew you were my English teacher.</p>
<p>I believe it was mentioned because your post is pretty hard to read the way it’s written. I saw this thread earlier and never bothered to even read it. In fact, I still haven’t bothered to read it.
Spaced paragraphs are our friends.</p>
<p>Tell you roommate either to cut it out, or to have his girlfriend bring a girl for you to mess around with while they’re going at it once and awhile.</p>
<p>Simple as that.</p>