<p>I’m a current senior, and PoliSci major; however, my two best friends from high school both go to Cornell, and have spent a fair amount of time visiting. You know that the schools are different, but the degree of that difference CANNOT be over-emphasized. I can’t comment too much on the ILR thing, aside from the fact that, obviously, an ILR degree doesn’t necessarily lead to a career in labor relations, and a PoliSci/History doesn’t preclude a career in labor relations. So, as far as I can sum up:</p>
<p>Cornell is a better choice, if you:
-Don’t mind the walk from your dorm to your classes taking 45 minutes (that is not an exaggeration).
-Are interested in joining a sorority (neither of my friends went greek, but most of their friends did).
-Want to attend sporting events.
-Are comfortable with a VERY school-spirited environment. Every time I visit, I’m shocked by the percentage of people (at least 2/3) who are wearing at least one item of Cornell paraphernalia.
-Don’t mind snow/winter (it’s not 6 months long, but it does get colder there, and the snow sticks around for all of it).
-Feel okay with big classes. I know ILR runs smaller than most of the schools at Cornell, but it’s still a big-class kind of school.
-Like the idea of a HUGE university.
-Want to be around nature. It is incredibly beautiful.
-Understand that it is NOT easy to travel between Ithaca and NYC. Monydad is right–the buses run frequently, and leave from campus. And, actually, the buses are much cheaper (maybe even free?) for Cornell students. What he misses is that a 5 hour bus ride, or even a shorter plane ride (not much shorter in the long run, given the time it takes to get to and from the respective airports, security time, etc.) is simply not feasible, except on breaks/long weekends, with the amount of work you’ll have. You can definitely spend a semester in NYC–one of my friends did a co-op in Boston. But, during a regular semester at Cornell, you shouldn’t expect to be able to come down to NYC for a weekend.
-Are okay with classes on Fridays.
-Don’t want a particularly strong institutional support system–things like academic and career advising, health services, research librarians, and professor accessibility are weaker.</p>
<p>You should go to Barnard if you:
-Don’t mind the distribution requirements.
-Are okay with a weaker sense of general community, supplanted by a deeper attachments in sub-communities (my friends here are like family, my first-year seminar class still meets to have dinner/drinks, you constantly see people you know). Sports are there, but not terribly well-attended. There are a few great moments of community spirit every semester, but it’s not terribly ubiquitous.
-Are comfortable with NYC, and its pace of life. Everyone and everything moves quickly here, and you will, too. My boyfriend did undergrad at a suburban liberal arts college, and is from Boston–he was surprised to find himself changing from a “Boston person” into a “New York person” so quickly. The difference, even though both are urban, is significant. New York is more frenetic, more 24/7, more artsy/cosmopolitan/aesthetic, sharper, more individualistic/weirder, more openly neurotic, more post-modern. Boston is great, but totally different–it sleeps at night, only rushes when it has somewhere to be, is more American/preppy/bro-ish. Cornellians, including my friends, tend to be more of “Boston people.”
-Want all of the incredible opportunities that NYC has to offer: museums, concerts, plays, opera, lectures, restaurants, bars.
-Are interested in interning during the school year. This is an incredible advantage; summer internships are generally much more competitive than those during the year. Barnard offers grants to help offset the costs of unpaid internships, and there are (almost) no classes on Fridays. Granted, it can be difficult to balance professional interests with academic ones, but it’s doable.
-Are independent, highly motivated, persistent, resilient, and confident in your abilities/comfortable with yourself.
-Want work that skews more to long essays, heavy readings, and class participation than tests.
-Want an incredibly well-developed institutional support system that fosters your holistic personal development, and is tailored to the particular needs of women aiming for high levels of success. Health services, counseling services, deans, academic advisors, career development, professors, disability services, fellowship/grad school advising, and special programs (like the BCRW, the Athena Leadership Labs, the Writing/Speaking Fellows) are all top-notch in terms of accessibility, focus on your specific needs, personal interest, empathy, and competence. Even President Spar has office hours.
-Don’t have much interest in greek life–it’s here if you decide you want it. But the weekend/party scene generally moves out of the frats and into the city after, say, orientation week. The panoply of options available in New York quickly becomes more appealing than, say, sticky floors and Natty Lite. The same cannot be said of Cornell.
-Are comfortable pursuing the connections, opportunities, and experiences you want. They are all here, they are all available to you, and you are talented enough to obtain them. However, pursuant to the stuff above about New York, people can get too wrapped up in their own world (friends, family, partners, school, work, clubs, etc.) to notice you–but, everyone is willing to connect, to help as they can, and to engage, if you just make the initial effort. Likewise, the opportunities and resources here are vast, but it’s up to you to go after them.
-Want to be surrounded by incredible women who, through their support and the example they set, help you become a more accomplished person. My good friends include a Fulbright research grantee, a Marshall Scholarship finalist, a 5-year B.A./M.I.A. student who’s received multiple grants from the State Department, women bound for top-tier grad schools (Harvard Law, LSE, and others), women who have signed with Bank of America and McKinsey, Teach for America grantees, a Peace Corps volunteer, and people who are just taking some time to sort through the mess of possibilities to figure out what it is they want to do. What is just as wonderful about these women as their accomplishments is that they are so incredibly approachable, down-to-earth, and supportive. They are focused and driven, but not so self-oriented that it detracts from their ability to empathize, or to form deep connections. Their personal characteristics are so much richer than their resumes suggest.
-Want to have access to an incredible alumnae community. There is truly a singular quality to Barnard alumnae: I never cease to be amazed by their poise, their articulateness, their intelligence, their authority, and their grace. Aside from that, almost all of them are interested in doing whatever they can to help you advance. Many women on the Board of Trustees meet with students (not just student government folk) regularly. The alumnae network is a great resource for personal and professional development.
-Want to meet super awesome people. Better than just meeting them, your time here will give you the intelligence, the authority, and the confidence, given the right forum, to get up and ask original, relevant, and probing questions of people you used to idolize. A sampling of people I have seen speak, thanks to Barnard/Columbia: the Interim Government Advisor of Bangladesh, Michele Bachelet, Ann Coulter. A sample of people I have gotten to meet, thanks to Barnard/Columbia: Hillary Clinton (a few times), Barack Obama, Chuck Hagel, Geraldine Ferraro (a few times), Fran Drescher (same place I met Geraldine Ferraro for the first time), David Patterson, Eliot Spitzer, Randi Weingarten, Anthony Weiner, Dustin Hoffman, Kirsten Gillibrand. A sampling of people I have gotten to question, thanks to Barnard/Columbia: Carolyn Maloney, Geraldo Rivera, Judith Kaye, Anna Quindlen, Gloria Steinem, Amy Klobuchar, Ellen Malcolm, Marie Wilson, Phyllis Schlafly, the UN Special Envoy to Myanmar, etc.</p>
<p>So, there we are. I think my time at Barnard has been incredibly well-spent. It’s not necessarily an easy or a happy school, but neither is Cornell. I know that I couldn’t have handled Cornell, but it’s an incredibly personal choice. After four years, I am amazed with how much I have accomplished and grown. I have developed an ease in articulating my ideas to a specific audience; a strong sense of self–my strengths, my values, my pleasures, my weaknesses; a resilience in the face of setbacks; an ability to identify my goals, the resources I need to achieve them, and the best way of obtaining those resources; an ability to connect with friends on a much more intimate level than I had previously thought possible; and a confidence in my authority–in the worth of my intelligence, my experience, my personal characteristics, my knowledge, my ideas, and my passions. In brief, I’ve learned poise, grace, and to relinquish the ideal of perfection. Most people can’t say that after undergrad; most Barnard women can.</p>
<p>Feel free to message me privately, should you have clarifying questions or concerns.</p>