<p>As a future Barnard student, let me address this question. Barnard no, is not the same as Columbia. We are a part of the university community however. We can use the facilities. We will take classes with you. We will not take the core (but neither will SEAS students). We will participate in ECs with you. We can room and board in your housing to a limited extent, and you in ours. We take our own freshman seminars. We have our own administration. We play on Columbia sports teams (as Barnard has none). We yes, do have our own admissions process which <em>is</em> less competitive (probably because it is an all girls school, eliminating all boys and many girls, and does not have the Ivy branding to attract more applicants).</p>
<p>But, I already have grown sick and tired of Columbia students saying nasty things to me. I scored above a 2300 on my SATs. My GPA was nearly perfect and I have many, many extra-curiculars, some of which I have received national awards in. Although I was waitlisted at Columbia and not admitted, I am qualified to be a student there. Some Barnard girls are extremely smart, some even have gained admission to Columbia but chose to go the all-girls route or want a smaller liberal arts college experience. </p>
<p>You were lucky to get into Columbia. You were lucky to get through the admissions process and come out on top, but that does not mean that you should demean other students and make them feel unwelcome and uncomfortable at a school where we also will attend classes. You may not like it, but that’s how it works. Hundreds of schools have relationships like this - Weslley and MIT and Harvard, Bryn Mawr and Haverford, UMass and Amherest, etc. etc. However, you lose nothing, not an inch of your prestige that you gained in the process, but being gracious and kind to the Barnard girls sharing your campus. In every student body, even your own, you will come across people less intelligent, the athletes, legacies, etc., and yes, some of the Barnard girls and students from JTS, but they don’t diminish what you have. Socially, they can enrich and bring new experiences. Employers know who the smart ones are, regardless of what your degree says and will be able to tell who deserves a job and who does not - even if my degree says Columbia on it. The point is though, that YOURS still does. I don’t take away anything from you. </p>
<p>So yes, I just wanted to share the perspective of a Barnard student. You don’t have to like us, but don’t judge the entire student body by statistics. Please be kind to us - it’s basic manners, and don’t make us feel uncomfortable on campus. I turned down offers of many other schools to come here, many with large scholarships, and the one thing that still irks me is how people treat us.</p>