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<p>Congrats on the good showing, and the susequent interest. I’ll presume these are mostly D3 schools given the time of year and the HeadFirst venue. Your son has done all he can do at this point with regards to the 10 schools. I would call the 10 HeadFirst coaches directly if you do not hear back within 10 days for your top choices. Keeping the lines of communication open (and interest high) is very, very important now. In addition, I would have your son reach out to more schools that he is interested in if they attended the HeadFirst camp as well. Always keep moving forward, and keep looking for new opportunities. The reason I say this is because you probably will not hear back from all 10 HeadFirst schools that initially contacted your son…some will drop off the face of the earth. This is a numbers game, and certain schools are looking for certain positions to fill. I would also expect that you will be contacted by additional HeadFirst schools. My son received handwritten notes and emails one month after the HeadFirst event. These coaches are very, very busy right now. We learned in our recruiting effort that the coaches timetable does not equal the recruits timetable.</p>
<p>This is a tough time of year for coaches, so you have to be patient, persistent and polite. They are recruiting for next year, and most schools are starting in the next couple of weeks. For D3 that means open tryouts, and they are checking to see how has enrolled at the college from their previous recruiting efforts. So, essentially they doing 3 important things all at the same time. Again, be patient, persistent and polite. </p>
<p>Yes, if you hear back from that #1 choice school and you sense they are extremely interested, your son should go visit the campus, tour the facilities, meet the team, attend some classes and meet with the coach. At some point the coach may ask where their school ranks on your son’s college list. If he still feels strongly about the school at that point, I would tell the coach it is his top choice…but I would also ask for information in return. Your son needs to ask if he is a top recruit for his position. The coach will either tell your son outright that he is a top recruit or he will “hedge”. This is how you find out where things stand, and don’t be afraid of asking direct questions if he “hedges”. These coaches do this for a living, so I think aksing a direct question will yield you more information. Sometimes it is not important what coaches say, but what they don’t say.</p>
<p>It can get get serious if they invite your son for a visit. They’ve seen him play at HeadFirst, and they have his transcript. Next, they want to know if he is a social fit for their team, and that he really wants to go to their school. They will most likely try to set up a time in Sept, Oct for your son to visit (overnight), go to a football game (or something like that) and then setup some one on one face time with the coach. He may offer you at that time or give you some time to think about it. Depending on the situation, he may request that you apply Early Decision (Nov 1 for some schools) or Early Action as a committment to the school and he will reciprocate by helping your application through Admissions and granting your son a roster spot. </p>
<p>There are several threads on this site about questions to ask on unofficial or official visits. That would be a good place to start as well. In addition, your son needs to be prepared to handle an offer from his top choice as well as an offer from a secondary choice. Role playing or reviewing with a parent is not a bad strategy in handling these situations.</p>
<p>Best of luck, and let us know if you have other questions. On thing you didn’t mention is if your son needs help from the coach for admissions. That is an important aspect to this.</p>