<p>What's the best college for Asian guys who want to date a. white girls b. anybody in general? I prefer white girls, but others are OK. I don't really want to go to a place with a large Asian population. It's not that I don't appreciate my culture, but I'm rather sick of Asian over achievers (like myself XD).</p>
<p>AJH2008 that was mean
this may have been a dumb question and BADLY worded, but that response was untrue
You do not speak for anyone, not even yourself.</p>
<p>To OP: Just work on being a better person overall, and it should not matter that you're asian or not. Sure being an asian and interracial dating is a little more difficult due to the numbers and population of the US, but you should have no problem dating all kinds of great gals if you believe in yourself. Girls want to date REAL men. Nobody wants to date a man does not appreciate his own identity and shuns his own race. Be yourself and make no apologies, saying stuff like "I don't appreciate my own culture" or "I ONLY like white girls" hurts nobody but yourself. Imagine from somebody else's perspective hearing a guy say what you're saying. Theres nothing there but pity, buddy.
Appreciate being different and an asian male, you have a lot to offer.</p>
<p>This is coming from a Asian guy's perspective :)</p>
<p>Haha thx 1337. Btw, I said "it's not that I don't appreciate my own culture" and I prefer to date white girls, not that I will ONLY date white girls. Anywho, why was the question badly worded? Seems clear to me XD.</p>
<p>Vanderbilt supposedly has a bunch of hot white girls. And there's a very small Asian racial makeup there compared to other top schools. Dunno dude though. Good luck scoring on those chicks.</p>
<p>My college consultant said she thought it wouldn't be good for me though. Cause it is a "big country club" and she thinks I wouldn't make any friends there. And people there are rich as hell, so I don't know. I think it fits your desired college well, I just dunno if you would "fit in" very well. If you think you could, then go for it.</p>
<p>There are more sexy Asian guys on the West Coast than the Midwest or East Coast (probably because of the higher Asian population there). If many others share this perception, the people there are probably more likely to look at Asian guys favorably.</p>
<p>dont let anyone get you down but also if you're skinny and socially inept it will be harder. work out, smile, get contacts (if you wear glasses) and don't be afraid to take initiative and approach her.</p>