Best College for Introverted Kids?

<p>So I'm gonna be in the process of looking for a school to transfer hopefully soon. So what do you guys think is the best option for introverts? I don't mind meeting people or partyin.. I'm just highly introverted sometimes....So choices are.....</p>

<p>-Large university
-Medium University
-Small/private school</p>

<p>or Maybe a large university with a football team to bring everyone together? but then i'd be only making friends when were obliviated. Soo what's everyones opinion for those who have been to college?</p>

<p>College is what you make of it. There’s no magical school that will be perfect for introverted people. You should really look at places that have the program you’re interested in studying, you like the location, and have a good student life. People can find their home at school no matter the size.</p>

<p>Agreed. Focus in academics first. If you’re going to a school where you love what you’re studying it can make a huge difference.</p>

<p>Every college has introverts. Being an introvert isn’t and shouldn’t be an excuse or deterrent for your life choices.</p>

<p>Make sure to visit colleges of all the different sizes, and get the vibes from each of them. Not all schools of the same size have the same vibe. I’m pretty introverted as well and I’m perfectly fine at a large university, but at other large universities I’ve visited I didn’t feel as comfortable. It just depends on the person.</p>

<p>Nice, I plan on doing that, PhantomVirgo. What school do you go to if you don’t mind?</p>

<p>Every school is different.</p>

<p>For example, some large universities are very social (e.g. University of Texas - Austin), while others are less so (University of North Texas). State flagship vs largely (but not entirely) a commuter campus.</p>

<p>Likewise, even among small liberal arts colleges, some have a more social vibe than others. For example, just the simple matter of whether students must live on campus for all 4 years or not can have a significant impact on the social tenor.</p>

<p>More importantly, every introvert is different. Think hard about what you want, specifically. Do you want lots of social opportunities and motivation to participate, but also the option to retreat and enjoy solitude now and then? Or do you want to be able to lose yourself in study without lots of social distractions, but have a few big events throughout the semester where you can get your head out of the books and meet people?</p>

<p>In the first case, you might choose a socially lively school where freshmen can get single rooms (or a single bedroom within a suite). In the second, you might prefer a less active social scene that focuses on intellectual rigor and occasional big-bash parties to let off steam.</p>

<p>Personally, I have always been of the former type. I love people and love being social even though it is not my primary nature, but my introversion means I need regular time to retreat and be alone to recharge my batteries.</p>

<p>Introversion also matters in the classroom, and you should especially give that serious consideration. You may excel when you have large classes where you can sit in the back row, take copious notes, and never get called on. Or you may be like me and do best in small seminar classes that keep you constantly engaged and accountable.</p>

<p>Knowing what is right for you is going to require knowing yourself well. Think about what will make you flourish, academically and socially. Focus on that and you’ll find your fit.</p>

<p>Don’t use being introverted as a way to look at colleges. Most colleges have all types. Consider more what you want to study in college.</p>

<p>@Ravy UC Davis.</p>