If your EFC is 25K and they’re not willing to contribute, it means they either take loans for you or you must commute to UW (if you get in, which is likely for creative writing but unlikely for all for CS due to the extremely low acceptance rate that make acceptance odds a lottery).
If you don’t get into UW, what happens?
If you get into a need-only college, what happens?
If you get a full-tuition scholarship, would that be enough?
With UW near you, I don’t think you should apply to colleges like Troy, SIU Carbondale, or Prairie View (look up their profiles).
Miami-OH might be worth a try.
LACs that offer merit scholarships, in case you’re lucky, also.
The basic set up is that parents should contribute to the best of their financial ability, roughly 25-30% of their income, through a combination of income and savings. (However if they can’t or won’t - too often the case with one divorced parent- then the choices are limited for the student. No one “forces” parents to pay something. It’s something they’re “supposed” or “expected” to do but if for whatever reason they don’t feel college is their responsibility there’re no mechanism to make them pay.)
Note that parents aren’t the sole people expected to contribute: students contribute through the federal loans (5.5K), savings from their part-time and/or summer job (if any), which may add up to 8K, 10K at the very most. Colleges may grant the student scholarships through various schemes but typically merit scholarships do not dent the “parents” contribution - often, if the student earns a scholarship, the loan is replaced with it, so that the student may take the 5.5K loan on top of the scholarship, but that doesn’t go very far.
Do you have a summer job? If you don’t, can you find one? (Basically whatever pays the most is what you’re looking for. Target, Cotsco, and Whole Foods are known to pay the most, and restaurants are desperate for reliable employees.) Then, save everything in a college fund.
Can your parents save anything, starting now, for your college? Even $50 set aside each month will help.
Full rides exist at some Southern universities for NMFs but by definition over 99% people don’t have access to those.
You really need to run the NPC on a couple colleges: UW, WWU, Whitman, Scripps (*) (for instance).
(* I was thinking Scripps or Pitzer might work academically, because being part of the consortium they offer lots of cross registration possibilities. Same thing for the 5College consortium in MA.)