You’re upper middle class. Likely you won’t get much or any aid. Your stats aren’t high enough for significant scholarships. In fact your UW GPA may mean no merit.
However, there may be some smaller privates in Calif (some of the smaller Catholics) who need more students and typically give some merit to nearly every student (St Mary’s and Dominican come to mind).
In other states, there are also some smaller privates that want more warm bodies and will somewhat discount their cost (not a big discount, but maybe get costs down to $40k per year).
Have your PARENTS run the NPCs and see the results.
Since you seem to want warm weather, check out Flagler College in Florida. Less expensive and beautiful…and inexpensive!!!