Agee. My son’s idea of partying is hanging out with friends to play cards or see a movie or just talk. Would much rather play sports with friends than be on a competitive team. Likes playing trumpet in a small ensemble better than competing for a solo in a large one. Likes helping other students understand concepts better than competing for the best grade. I’m thinking a place like Swarthmore would be a great fit. Just hope that Swarthmore agrees.