best friend .. replaced me and now ignores me like hell

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<p>so i just into a new college last july ... i met a girl.. we became best friends ...lets call her jennie... i was friends with 4 more guys .. and jennie was with one other girl ... so jennie and i desided one day .. lets create a group so i created a group on whatapp ... yes me ... and introduced every1 ... we all are in the same class ... but it was jennie and me who were friends before ...</p>

<p>at clg as well as on whatapp group .... jennie and me were always talking craking jokes .... she use to care for me ..</p>

<p>we t=use to talk a lot on personal msging as well ... she always use to ask for me .. like where am i ...i miss yew stuff </p>

<p>suddenly ... around 15 oct. i felt like she was ignoring me... in clg .. like jennie didnt use to gave attention to my words ... i use to call her .. i thought maybe she ignored it to ... but on whatapp group she was always worried .. and asking about me ..</p>

<p>so around 6 novmeber .i started ignoring her .. her didnt replied to her msges ... she asked me like 20 times r yew angry with me .. i said no ... we didnt communicate for like 5 days .. and on 12th novmeber she cried .. in class.. i felt bad .. we patched up..</p>

<p>but after 24 hours .. everything changed .. she ignored me like hell like .. didnt replied to mah msges on whatpp group .. wwhen i asked her particularly .. like jenny what r yew doing .. whatapp jenny where r yew ..</p>

<p>at clg .. it was all changed ..and at the same time .. she replaced me with a guy in our group ...and she started doing the same things she use to do with me .. like asking fr him in the group.. clg me alaways talking abt him. giving him importance ... and i became last for her ... it really .. killed me from inside .. coz i didnt knew wht happened..</p>

<p>then we started having fights , we patch up.... like 3-4 times.. coz i didnt liked it .. the ignorance ..</p>

<p>and she nvr admitted she was changed .. still she is like hey we r best friends ..</p>

<p>let talk about PRESENT DAY ... she is so close with that guy ... we often talk .. and whever we do . it feels like she is doing a favour ... her replies are not the same ...
ignores the shit out of me in clg .. and notice every single detail abt tht guy ..and i got a makeover .. didnt said a word abt it ...</p>

<p>i have to go to clg everyday ... and i seriously dnt knw how to deal with his ....:/</p>

<p>its killiing me from inside ... please helpppp me ..~~~~~ and there is so much more to the story ... ...</p>

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<p>one of my friends stopped talking to me. it killed me from the inside too. there was a really bad feeling all the time, could last hours on end, came back nearly daily, was always about how he stopped being my friend and why. i was really messed up over it. this went on for 5 months until he began to talk to me again (but only about tv and only if i continued to watch the list of shows he emailed me) now it’s not killing me anymore from the inside but a lot of my free time is now spent watching tv. sorry this is happening and has happened to you, it’s not right :(</p>

<p>i tried for a long time to find a way to deal with it or some remedy that would make it hurt less but nothing really worked. i seriously didn’t know how to deal with it either and i still don’t, besides to avoid it by trying to be a better friend so it doesn’t happen again.</p>

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<p>but it still hurts a lot … seeing him care for him a lot … and nthing for me …</p>

<p>we never talk now … i have stopped msging on the whatapp group … that was created by me …:.&lt;/p>

<p>i tried diverting mah mind … i joined guitar classes … fr sme time i feel good …</p>

<p>but next day i enter college … see her and everything … jst comes back to me …</p>

<p>and i have to deal with this everydday … i seriously dont know what to do …</p>

<p>other girl in my group … asked me why you are not coming to clg …</p>

<p>i replied i dnt like it … and jenny and me are nt gud friends anymore…</p>

<p>the she said … dude ppl change … jst move on . and dnt run from it </p>

<p>and i was like … whaa ddaaa faa ,</p>

<p>i feel like she used me … when she had no1 … i was her best buddy … the day she got some1 … it took her 6 days to replace me , </p>

<p>i dnt knw how to deal with this … it hurts preety bad … :confused: </p>

<p>any suggestionss… please … :/</p>