<p>While I think it’s ok to keep trying, make sure you are doing it in tandem with actively seeking other opportunities. If she’s been in the role for 4 months and has made no attempt to reach you, there is a very good chance there is not an opportunity. This is not necessarily a reflection on your skills - even if your height and skills truly match, remember that coaches are only recruiting certain positions each year, so they may have no need for your position in 2013. In addition, many schools are done with 2013 recruiting, so she may have no spots left.</p>
<p>Of course, it’s also possible that she is completely buried with trying to figure out what is happening with her current commits based on the coaching change, and with starting the new season, so not saying completely give up, but make sure you have strong back-up options. It is very late in the 2013 recruiting cycle for volleyball.</p>