All good info. Appreciate it. U Mich was not her top choice. It wasn’t even on her list (it was on mine). But she changed her mind late in the process. Part of the reason she didn’t get her application in on time for EA.
So many seniors are super overwhelmed in the fall with AP/IB courses, high demand clubs and sports
Not so much. I know what you mean, but there are a few things that are notably worse than others. Chess club after school for 2 hours isn’t the same as a 7 PM game that has a 60 minute travel time, where kids have to be at the school at 3:45 pm to check in, get there in time for an hour warmup, 2.5 hour game, getting home at 10, being physically destroyed and exhausted, and then having to do 3 hours of homework until 1 AM. For that alone, kids who are top tier academically who also do that should be given extra special consideration by colleges. They probably aren’t, but they should be. Even sports like track, less demanding at our HS, fewer hours required, no weekends, and kids could miss practice if they had big tests or homework. Soccer and football, those kids get benched if they miss practice for a test. Coaches don’t care. The issue here though was more than it wasn’t on her list initially.
She also doesn’t have a clear 1, 2 and 3 school. She wanted to see where she could get in among schools she likes, and then with that list, go from there. I envy the kids who are certain of their #1 and #2 choices - but I even wonder if they truly know. So much of it is based on the kid, and random events, more so than a particular program. Just reading about how many kids read about the UC San Diego “colleges” and picked one based on the literature, only to find out they are miserable with their choice because it was different than described.
The Ross thing with the portfolio is a bummer. We weren’t even aware that was the situation since it wasn’t a school on her list initially, and it’s pretty much the only school we’ve seen that asks for it. It will certainly attract the kids who are always “super prepared”, even if not the most talented kids. She will apply for LSA.
As for affordability, it’s going to be a process where we look at merit (in some cases there will be none of course), value for the cost (alumni networks, program quality, job success rates), college loan options, and how much fin aid we get with 3 kids in school across CSS privates and FAFSA publics. No way to really know now. I have been surprised with each kid what has come back from those processes.