<p>Hey everyone, my name is PJ and I am an 18 year old college freshmen. I go to a small, private catholic college in MD. In the summer I was assigned to a 4 person suite unexpectedly, and I had no issue with it. It was in one of the older buildings on campus (built in 1962). We and my roommates were lucky, we had a full bathroom, kitchen, washer/dryer, and a huge refrigerator. </p>
<p>Anyway, my whole life I have wet the bed, it's a hormone problem/deficiency that cannot consistently be fixed with any particular medication. Anyway, the way our room was set up was there were 2 people per room. Well, around the second to third week of school I wet the bed. I was getting up at around 5:45-6:30 due to 8 AM classes, and I took care of things right away. I sprayed Febreeze, Lysol, wiped down the mattress, etc., all while my roommate was asleep in the bed beside me. It then happened a week and a half later, but I've had it under tight reign ever since. </p>
<p>The day after the second incident my roommate asked if I had a minute as I was getting dressed at 6:30 AM. He said a few of his friends pointed out a smell they did not recognize (But he did recognize). He asked me what was going on and I explained everything to him straight out. Well, then he went to the RA across the hall (I did not know that until recently) and then the RA said he started "Smelling a weird smell" when he walked past our room at the start of the hall. He brought this up twice with me, both times I became more and more aware and careful. Then about the third weekend into September (September 19) my RA's supervisor (Director of RA's) emailed me for the first time saying he just became aware of some concerns about my room, and wanted to have a meeting with me. </p>
<p>The Assistant Director was concerned- he was concerned about the reports he had been notified of, but as he talked to me more he started to question why I spend so much time working in the schools dining hall/cafe and not going back to my room - he started going on how he was concerned I wasn't making friends based on what I told, but I've ALWAYS liked working alone, I'm more efficient that way. Then about a week a later he called me to his office once more, saying that he had spoken to my roommate and that my roommate "laid it all out" and had real concerns, he then called my roommate in 30 minutes later for us all to discuss the issue, that was on September 26. My roommate, the assistant director, and I talked about what could be done. I carried out the situation we proposed.</p>
<p>The second week I was awoken at 3 AM by my roommate puking his guts out all over our carpeted our room, and I could definitely tell no one cared. There are still huge, bright bleach spots all over the milk chocolate covered carpet. A week before I overheard them in the next room talking about revenue, profit, and payments. Always looking for business opportunities I poked my head in the next room and saw a partially case of Jack Daniels Whiskey on the floor, they had been SELLING it to sophomores. A girl knocked on the door about an hour later and bought a full sized bottle of Jack Daniels, stuck it in her satchel, and left. Three hours later that girl came back with 3 cans of beer in a plastic grocery bag. Then, in the last week of September our invited my roommates and I to address rumors that he had been hearing of Alcohol, Drugs, Weed, etc., and said he didn't want to see anyone get in trouble. One of my roommates turned bright white. </p>
<p>According to my roommates and the RA, the urine smell never went away (I even tried pet odor spray in a spray bottle and sprayed down everything in site. The thing I hadn't of had an accident for at least 2-3 weeks before that. MY roommate was the only one who I knew for certain knew about the issue, not the other 2 roommates in the other room. Well in the second week of October I was called in for another meeting, this time with the housing director and the RA director. They said there was a single room they thought I might like in a separate building on campus that was more centralized to everything, so that I might be "more comfortable." It was an opportunity they were only giving me (Single rooms are coveted on campus). I had about 4 days to tell them yes and more, as the school was preparing for a 10 day fall break. I mulled it over.</p>
<p>Apparently during break when the RA's were inspecting the rooms my RA once again smelled urine in the first room only, my room. He left a notice in the center of the back of my door for everyone to see, all my roommates saw it before I did. They were upset/concerned because the RA said he was going to document us for it. It was then when I got an email about meeting the housing director about if I was still interested in the single room. Well this is where things get interesting, I was never really given a chance to say yes or no at that meeting. She (The housing director) was essentially trying to sell me on the single room. They said they wanted everyone to be comfortable. I never said a "yes" or "no" yet she put the contract/moving form in front of me to sign, that was last Thursday 10/23, they wanted me to move in over next 5 days. Apparently the other 3 roommates all wanted to move out of the room for various reasons both personal and hygiene, BUT the other 2 NEVER SAID A WORD or gave any indication of a problem. </p>
<p>Yesterday night I told the guys in my room that tomorrow (Tuesday) would be the day I would move out since I only have a 2 PM class. But one of the guys INSISTED that I move out THAT night, and they would help me and could do it in 1-2 trips across campus with all of them helping. I was RUSHED into throwing all of my things haphazardly into boxes and crates my roommates had. This happened at 8 PM. We all marched across the campus to my new room and they all literally dumped by books, clothes, Papers, and other belongings on my desk, bed, and floor- just so they could take the crates back. I was in tears as we walked across campus, but I hid it the best I could. It looked like a hurricane hit. Not a single goodbye was said. </p>
<p>Two of the guys and I started messaging back and forth and these were some of the things said: "Dude it's okay," "Seriously don't worry about it, things happen, we can still hangout when you want to. " "We don't dislike you, it needed to be done and there are no hard feelings." Or "We respect you and we understand what happened but resident life had come,to the conclusion that this is the best solution for,all of us" </p>
<p>I just feel hurt, isolated, and upset. </p>
<p>Here is what irks me </p>
<p>1) The RA knew about the problem and so did the whole housing office, why did he keep having to bring it up?
2) How can my roommates get drunk, puke on the floor, sell liquor, have 10-15 friends at a time over, etc. and not have to switch rooms or get in trouble - I think my issue was insignificant compared to what they were doing.</p>
<p>I miss my old room</p>
<p>Suggestions?</p>