Binghamton or Cornell?

Hello! I am a senior in HS and was accepted to both the college of arts and sciences at bing and the college of human ecology at cornell. I am very conflicted which school to choose. I always thought I would end up at bing, and was shocked when I was accepted into Cornell. I commited to bing because Cornell gave me an extension to decide because they messed up my financial aid and I had to wait for them to re process it.

I found out my new financial aid package today… It is great. Binghamton and cornell would basically be the same price.

However, I am very intimidated by cornell. I fell in love with binghamton, partially because I thought I would 100% go there. I am scared for the workload at cornell. Does anyone have insight? Is cornell that much harder (even human ec?) Thanks!

Congratulations on your acceptance to Cornell! Since the cost is the same for both schools Cornell is much better choice. The reason people go to binghamton is because of the value and it’s not providing that for you. Cornell is just better to binghamton in a lot of ways.

Obviously there is the name recognition and the whole ivy league thing but Cornell has a lot of resources compared to binghamton, it is located in a really lovely town and the campus is very nice, you will have the chance to meet a lot of interesting people since cornell students come from all over the country (and world) not just downstate new york, you have better on campus recruitment, better networking opportunities, more school spirit. As for the infamous workload in Cornell, that is really an engineering school thing. Don’t let that stop you from going there. Anyway, if Cornell was many thousands of dollars more expensive it would make sense to consider binghamton but since they are the same cost you’re better off going to Cornell.

What is it exactly that draws you to binghamton?

There’s a stereotype at Binghamton that a lot of us could’ve gone to Cornell if we could afford it, or we juust barely missed getting in, so I’d say Cornell is a great option if it’s available to you. The people I know at Cornell are very happy there and it’s less overwhelming because you spend a lot of time with people in your program, which makes the campus feel smaller.

However, one thing I’ll say – I’m really glad I ended up not doing Human Ecology at Cornell because I later changed my major to something else, which was in the College of Arts and Sciences. That would’ve put me in a huuge pickle because while my family could’ve afforded Human Ec, the non-NY schools would’ve been a problem. So if there’s a chance you’re not absolutely sure you want to stay in that program, it’s something to consider.

If both of the same exact price. Go to Cornell. It is a no brainer

I vote Cornell as well. Congrats!

My son turned down Bing and 50% tuition merit from Albany for Cornell. Same thing, visited just because we were at Bing tour, took an extra day to tour Cornell and assumed it was not likely.

It has been a large workload, and while the workload does vary by major, it’s not just engineering. My son is in ILR, which they say means “I Like to Read”. Not sure about HEC, but if you got into both schools, you can do it. I have many family members who went to Bing, some loved it, some not. Haven’t heard regrets about Cornell other than the hard work. But the city is as scenic as it gets, and you’ll have interesting brilliant peers from around the world.

I would guess that generally the workload at Cornell will be higher.
However if you want to do great at Binghamton you will work hard there too.
If you don’t care about that, that’s another story.

My statistically insignificant sample of recent grads from each shows the Cornell grads doing a lot better afterwards.
But that likely comes down to the individuals. The same innate drive that resulted in one accepting the challenge of choosing Cornell, and the other shirking that challenge, may have had other ramifications that transcended their school choice.

IMO the first thing somebody should do before committing to Hum Ec is look carefully at the graduation requirements, both for major and for other in-college credits, and make sure you are comfortable with fulfilling these. Both as things look now, and maybe consider how your interests may change. After such investigation my son was not comfortable with what he might have to take to fulfill the in-college credit requirements. That was mostly why he didn’t apply. But other people would be fine with them.
Yes it is possible to change colleges there, but it is not absolutely guaranteed, and as has been pointed out there may be economic impacts of doing so.

If the Hum Ec curriculum seems to appeal and apply to you, and based on an impartial assessment of your credentials there is no reason to think you would struggle there if you put in the effort, then I would recommend it.

But Binghamton is far from a disaster. It’s a good school. Perhaps more “chill”. The city is economically depressed and a far cry from Ithaca. However I observed a surprising amount of student night life there. I didn’t realize that before I visited overnight . A student can have a good time there. And a good experience.

If Binghamton has your program of studies and Hum Ec maybe doesn’t I would choose Binghamton. Also if I really thought I was not up to it academically, (for good reason) even if I put in the effort, then I might choose Binghamton. Four years of constant struggle, with poor results to show for it, is not fun. And Binghamton is a good school.

But really think about where you stand at Cornell academically. Look at the stats vs. yours. Look at the other people from your school who are going there. Etc. Do not just assume that “if they accepted you that means you can do the work”. Though my experience was centuries ago at this point, I saw my freshman roommate flunk out of ILR, and a number of others fall by the wayside or struggle mightily to get through. So do your own investigation. But if your deficit, if there is one, is just effort, and you are committed to change that, then perhaps you should accept the challenge. And become a better student, and worker, because of it.

I just noticed that the original post was from May of last year !!!
Now I feel like a big idiot for spending so much effort answering.

@monydad Guess you have that non-stop Cornell work ethic, can’t help yourself :slight_smile:

@monydad randomly checked my college confidential account and saw your response! I ended up choosing Cornell (human development major), and have had a good year, although it has been stressful. However, that was expected, and I am strategically planning my future semesters so that I can better balance my work load + stress level. Thank you for your response!

No problem.
Suggest when you have time stop by and provide insight to prospective students who are now in the position you were in when you first posted. Current student input beats old alum input.

https://www.brookings.edu/articles/who-needs-harvard/

I read the above article recently. It is from 2004, so the pressure to attend top Univs must only have increased since. My favorite line from the article: “In other words, the student, not the school, was responsible for the success.”

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