Bit of a dilemma

Pre-College Issues High School Life
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<p>If you had to choose between two really good friends how would you go about it?</p>

<p>Both I care for but in different ways, one being a girl who thinks just like me and the other just a guy to spend time and relax with. I was really close to both but the guy and the girl had some issues which I don't know about and are not friends anymore. They both want me to maintain friendships with both of them but at this point I just can't hang out with one without getting the other to feel bad or left out. </p>

<p>And believe me, i've tried talking and fixing things and mediating. Atleast I got the summer ahead of me but this sort of puts a damper on it as I spent a lot of time with both of them during the school year. Ant ideas? I really don't want to leave one behind but it's sort of come down to this after months.</p>

2

<p>Oh wow. This is just like a situation I’m in except all the friends involved are guys. I’ll probably end up sticking with whoever’s the least annoying.</p>

3

<p>I’m surprised that neither of them said that despite the fact they hate the other, they don’t mind that YOU are friends with them. I mean, it isn’t their decision who you’re friends with.</p>

<p>Anyways. To follow social norms, if you’re a girl, I say go with the girl and try to maintain your friendship with the guy, but focus more on the girl. If you’re a boy, then do the exact opposite.</p>

4

<p>Ah thanks guys. Truth be told I think i’m just gonna go under the radar for a while and see how it plays out. At the moment i’m not choosing to see either of them.</p>

5

<p>thats good, make them both realize that theyre both losing a good friend.</p>