<p>So. I have visited both Bryn Mawr and Haverford, and eliminated HC for personal reasons; Bryn Mawr is wobbling around on the edges, largely because I don't quite "believe" in the Bi-Co. For instance, Bryn Mawr has no music program, its creative writing program is a poor fit for me, and I understand CS majors take a lot of courses at the other college. All this would not be a problem if the combined resources were truly one school, but I have a hard time believing that this is the actual effect. A 20-minute bus commute is still a 20-minute commute to class, and dependent on bus schedules.</p>
<p>In HS now, I go to a math/science magnet with an arts magnet right downstairs; my school provides the sports while the arts school provides the fine arts departments. Theoretically, the best of both worlds; but in reality, the situation is unequal (at least in fine arts; I hear the sports teams are far better integrated). The arts school teachers have little respect for students who prioritize academics or extracurriculars over their class; I've experienced this myself in music, and my friend has had issues with the annual musical for 3 years now due to the subtle inequalities. Things like the teacher willing to work around same-school extracurriculars, but not other-school activities. Things like the band being cut out of my school's graduation this year without notifying the director until the day before the graduation. I hope and assume that BMC/HC's relationship is more cordial--but tell me what the "worst" parts of it are.</p>
<p>Then there is the social aspect. I'm wary of attending a women's college, especially since I'm not the partying type. BMC claims that HC guys are well-integrated; the HC adcom rep told me that HC tends to keep to itself socially. And how does Swarthmore fit into the portrait?</p>
<p>I'm not posting this on the BMC board because I have little interest in sugarcoated assurances.</p>