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There are the more obvious fit issues related to the childs interests, i.e., if the child is passionate about equestrian pursuits, then you should be looking at schools with horses. </p>
<p>There are the soft issues, one of which you have already mentioned: personality. A shy, quiet child might fare better in a smaller, more intimate setting, where ‘everybody knows your name’. </p>
<p>Then there is fit related to academic ability. Too many kids pursue admission into the uber-intense schools, not really thinking about how ably they will compete in the school once they are in there. It would not be a pleasant time in BS being in the bottom half of the class ranking. A recurring problem I observe on the CC boards is over-reach-- nice kids with middling academic profiles who apply to the most academically selective schools that accept only 1-in-8 applicants, with no special hooks in their CV to distinguish them from the other 2000 kids who apply-- their admissions outcomes are not happy ones. </p>
<p>I recommend that your brother take the SSAT test early as a diagnostic assessment. If you decide to apply to the most selective group of schools, bear in mind that your brother will be competing in a intl arena of applicants. Do not underestimate the competition.</p>
<p>There is fit according to maturity. At the most selective schools, there are a high number of repeat students, i.e. they deliberately apply for one grade younger. This is a red-shirting strategy to give child an academic, social, & athletic/physical advantage. Girls also repeat. If your brother is young or small for his age, you might want to consider repeating. There is no stigma to repeating in a prep school- colleges do not look negatively upon this. Applying as a repeat can also give you a competitive advantage in the applications rat race. Some school will even recommend that a child apply as a repeat. This is an issue you can discuss at the interview. </p>
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I already mentioned a plus with a small school. </p>
<p>Larger schools generally can offer more things on account of economies of scale. e.g. broader academic offerings. Also, they will have more competitive athletic teams, because they have a large pool of students to draw from. The downside of a large schools is that it may be more challenging to stand out from the crowd academically & athletically, because there are more kids competingkids that were stars in their middle school are often humbled going to a big school.</p>
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<p>There are different types of BS. There are College Preparatory schools, i.e. prep schools, and there are Therapeutic Schools. These are schools that specialize in helping kids with learning issues (ADHD, etc.) and with behavioral problems (a.k.a. reform school). Then there are Military Schools which can be the college preparatory type or the therapeutic type. There are co-ed schools and single sex. Religious-affiliated schools and secular schools. FYI, the elite college preparatory schools that have a historical religious affiliation are not going to shove religion down the kids throatsso dont let that deter you from considering them. </p>
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Is your brother the only child now, i.e. does he have siblings close to his age at home? He might find it appealing to have a band of brothers at BS. </p>
<p>The resources of a top day school are no where close to the resources of a top BS.</p>
<p>FYI, this is a good place to start:
[Boarding</a> School Review - College-Prep & Jr. Boarding Schools | BoardingSchoolReview.com](<a href=“http://www.boardingschoolreview.com/]Boarding”>http://www.boardingschoolreview.com/)</p>