<p>Kitan,</p>
<p>Not necessarily. The most disturbing trend is that I see parents pushing their children to consider schools based on stats rather than what fits them. When I was in school there were multiple suicide attempts for that reasons. Parents want what is perceived to be the best - not realizing that the school that might maximize their child’s potential may not be the one perceived to be the most popular or with the highest IVY matriculation stats. And despite saying schools want a diverse student body - stats are easy to manipulate by cherry picking students who are already on an IVY trajectory (i.e. doing activities that - if continued - fit an IVY profile).</p>
<p>On another thread a student is stressing out because a parent wants them to “load” up on specific classes. Which makes me wonder if the student picked the school because it was the best fit - or because it fulfilled a parent requirement.</p>
<p>See what I mean? Likewise, a lot of applicants on CC debate what school is better - some never having set foot on a campus and relying on data from other equally uninformed students.</p>
<p>Exeter, for instance, is a “you love it” or “you hate it” kind of place. Not much in between. So one poster will say they love it, another student will call it “Azakaban.” Some parents say it struck them as “cold.” Others will say they had a warm and fuzzy feelings.</p>
<p>So stats - like all math - can be manipulated to prove a specific point. A more interesting stat would be “how many applied and how many were accepted out of that pool?” If a school had a 30% matriculation to IVY or HYPM but a 100% application rate, that would mean 70% were rejected? Or chose not to go. And if the stats were broken down by percent who matriculated to BS from a private school, versus percent who matriculated to BS from a public school. OR % HYPM legacy.</p>
<p>See the difference. The internet started a feeding frenzy and at $50/student created application pools that are hard to sort through and hence a “sellers” market when there used to be more of a balance between buyers and sellers.</p>
<p>So that’s my points. Parents use stats to determine “fit”. But really its more to establish a dream goal for college. Because little in the stats tell about personality and day to day living - or classroom prowess.</p>
<p>I’ve also seen parents use boarding school stats hoping to “fix” their students or motivate them. To make an IVY eligible kid where the raw material doesn’t already exist. Those kids crash and burn. Some flunk or transfer or get kicked out. That doesn’t work either.</p>
<p>But to each his own. It’s kind of sad given that 80-90%, again, aren’t getting a shot regardless of the motivation, and good schools that are under-recognized go ignored - which gets worse because their yield is high and is interpreted as being “undesirable” or “easy.”</p>