Hello,
I was accepted into both Colgate University and Boston College, and I’m having a really hard time deciding which college to go to. I love both colleges, and I already know some benefits and drawbacks about each (at least, from my perspective).
I like Colgate because it is an LAC, and I believe it will suit my personality well. I’m extremely introverted and am not the biggest fan of large groups or parties; I prefer to have a small, tight group of friends but still get along amicably with everyone else. One of the biggest appeal is the fact that I will be able to learn in very small classes at Colgate. Additionally, I plan on going to grad school (hopefully vet school) so it is really important to me that I will be able to get good recommendation letters. I’ve never been really outgoing or loud so I always had a hard time getting close with my teachers in high school and I’m hoping the low student to faculty ratio at Colgate will allow me to naturally get close with my professors. My biggest concern for Colgate is that I have heard the stereotype that students party all the time, Greek life is very strong, and a lot of elite, privileged kids go there. I don’t have a huge issue with the elitist students (my high school is full of them so I’m used to it), but I’m really not the type of person to party like crazy all the time. I’m also concerned that I won’t be able to fit in with the strong Greek life for the same reason that I don’t really like parties and pretty much shy away from big social scenes (I know I need to start becoming more outgoing; I’ve gotten better and am still working on it). I know both school are well-known for their parties, but I wanted to know how excessive/prominent it is at each college and whether I will be ostracized for not going to many of them (especially at Colgate, since I’ve heard that the students form very tight groups around the greek life and their parties)
For Boston college, I like that it is close enough to Boston that I can go to the city to have fun and (hopefully) find many research opportunities, but it is still far away enough that it doesn’t feel like the college is in the city. Going back to the research opportunities, I know that since I want to go to vet school and my major will be more geared towards the sciences, Boston college is the better option for the fact that it is a research university with more opportunities in the city. I just have a nagging fear that I will have to compete with other students from the prestigious colleges in Boston (northeaster, Brandeis, Harvard, etc.) for internships and research. I’m also concerned about the large undergraduate size. Will it be hard to get to know the professors? How big, on average, are the classes? Will there be a lot of difficulties when it comes to scheduling classes? Boston College also ended up being more expensive, and Colgate is the only school where my financial aid is guaranteed for all four years, which means that I won’t have to worry about my college cost going up once my brother graduates from college in two years.
As for the location, I know that I love nature and small, quaint villages. Lately, however, I’ve found myself wanting to visit cities and do more exciting things. I’m completely torn between wanting to spend my next four years surrounded by nature in a calm setting, or living close to one of the biggest cities in America and try new, exciting things. I guess this is something I have to figure out on my own, but any information on what there is to do around both colleges would be great.
I plan on majoring in either psychology or neuroscience - at least for now. I want to be a vet when I grow up (so I will need to focus on science classes), but I’ve always loved reading, history, and am intrigued by philosophy. Which college will give me the best of both?
On a side note: I was also accepted into Case Western Reserve University, in case that changes the opinions of anybody in terms of which college I should pick. I just haven’t given serious thought to that college because its too close to home and I really want to leave Ohio.
Holy crap I did not realize this post would turn out so long. If anyone could give me any input on which college I am better suited for based on the things I talked about, that would be great. If anyone wants to just add more things about each college or opinions about them that would also be very helpful.
Thanks!