<p>There's this really great diversity program offered at Bowdoin College, in Maine, where if you're poor and/or a minority, they cover the full cost of meals, housing and transportation to visit the college. I fit into both categories, and being from California, it's a fantastic opportunity. It'd probably be the only college I'd actually get to visit. (Parents are in no way helping with the the college process, for example, I live 20 minutes from Stanford and they "don't feel like" taking me to visit, even if just for fun.)</p>
<p>As part of the program, prospective students interview right then and there. The issue with that is I'm socially awkward. I'm told that after a bit, I do come off as sweet, but my speech pattern is characterized by rambling, stuttering, and a slight Central American lisp that worsens with nerves. Because of those, I tend to be really withdrawn and quiet. So should I still interview, or is it likely that it could hurt my application?</p>
<p>Rambling is an issue that you can work on before the interview. You know the types of questions that you are likely to be asked…start thinking through your responses now. Practice with a parent or friend.</p>
<p>If you live 20 minutes away from Stanford, you could probably visit using public transportation…the Caltrain stop at University Avenue is very convenient.</p>
<p>So I should still try for the program?</p>
<p>And SVmom, I’d probably have to sneak out of the house to go though. Parents are very strict. I could go with a friend, thanks for the suggestion!</p>
<p>Interview. don’t ever NOT interview unless location MAJORLY prohibits you</p>
<p>These programs are usually great. And, if you are interested in Bowdoin, going sends them a positive signal. Agree it’s good to work on the rambling, but don’t make yourself more nervous. They’re looking for something about your strengths and interests, goals and activities, that you’re a nice, motivated kid. You can even admit to them that you’re a bit nervous- they know. You won’t be the first. Good luck.</p>