<p>Hello. I need some advice from guys. I've just started college and met this guy whom I really like. I just can't get him off my mind.
Do you think it is okay for a girl to ask a guy out? Or should I wait some more to see if he's ever interested in me? I kinda wanna tell him that I like him a lot, but then I'm afraid that he might not like me at all and won't even stay friends with me. (you know how things can go awkward after one tells the other that she likes him or vice versa) Whenever he sees me he says 'hi how are you or how's your day' in a very nice way, but I think he does that to everybody he knows. What do you guys think of girls who make the first move? If girls ask you guys out, do you usually say yes or no? (I guess that depends on who the girl is, but in general?) And what is a good excuse to ask a guy out? I appreciate all your comments.</p>
<p>If you like him, I say go for it. I've heard guys like girls who make the first move, but then again I'm a girl so I don't really know :-P. If you want to make it really casual, just be like "Hey, I was wondering if you wanted to get some lunch sometime" or even "Hey, I really want to see that new (whatever) movie, want to come with?" Something like that. Or if you're in any classes with him and you have a test coming up, you could always say you don't understand something or you were wondering if he wanted to study with you.</p>
<p>Good luck! You have a hell of a lot more courage than I do by even considering asking the guy out :)</p>
<p>It depends on how long you have know him and if he's sending any signs at you. You don't want to come on to strong, and asking a guy out can definately do that. But yea, many guys including myself like women who make the moves...makes our jobs easier.</p>
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<p>You're dead right there ;)</p>
<p>no, guys don't like girls asking them out...it's a problem if the girl is ugly and the guy is too much of a wuss (which they usually are) to reject her. im a guy by the way.</p>
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<p>citan is right. this is often dependent on the attractiveness of the girl and the personality of the guy in question, althought more on the former, quite frankly.</p>
<p>So if you're a girl and think you're attractive, make the move. If not, i feel sorry for you. :P</p>
<p>Well, if I was invited for a dinner by a girl, my manhood would not allow me to say "sorry love, but I have better things to do". I would definitely accept the invitation. If it happened that I really like the girl, I make the next step myself. So my advice is: go ahead, just try to make it seem neutral, though friendly. Afterwards you wait -- if the guy really likes you, he will make the next move himself.
Good luck!</p>
<p>Everyone would like to think that they're attractive. That's irrelevant. I say talk to him b/c otherwise nothing will happen. Can you think of anything more terrible to happen than nothing?</p>
<p>Think about it, if some1 becomes aware you're interested in him, the chance of getting together becomes much greater. If he's not into you, nothing was gonna happen anyway. Even in the unlikely event that you're 'rejected,' at least that brings closure instead of just waiting, waiting, waiting... do something.</p>
<p>Well, he either likes you or...just likes you as a friend. Whether you ask him or not isn't really going to change anything. So it's up to you. Personally I would not mind at all if a girl asks me out and I wouldn't think anything of it.</p>
<p>Unless he's a total jerk or chauvinist (and in both cases not worth your time), there are few things as flattering as a girl taking the social risk to try and get to know you better. Seriously, for a girl to buck the social trends in order to chase YOU... I mean, most guys would love that.</p>
<p>Unless, as someone pointed out, the chemistry just is not there at ALL. But you're the best judge of that, and just remember: if you don't ask, the answer's always "no".</p>
<p>If I were in this guy's position (and I am male, btw), I would appreciate it a lot if you asked me out. Asking girls out is difficult for some guys, and if you can get up the nerve to ask him, you should.</p>
<p>"Do you think it is okay for a girl to ask a guy out?"</p>
<p>Yes.</p>
<p>"Or should I wait some more to see if he's ever interested in me? I kinda wanna tell him that I like him a lot, but then I'm afraid that he might not like me at all and won't even stay friends with me. (you know how things can go awkward after one tells the other that she likes him or vice versa) Whenever he sees me he says 'hi how are you or how's your day' in a very nice way, but I think he does that to everybody he knows."</p>
<p>Don't wait, youre overanalzying this.</p>
<p>"What do you guys think of girls who make the first move?"</p>
<p>That's f-cking A, meaning f-cking awesome.</p>
<p>"If girls ask you guys out, do you usually say yes or no?"</p>
<p>Most likely a yes.</p>
<p>"And what is a good excuse to ask a guy out?"</p>
<p>There really are none...Just ask him if he wants to eat dinner or catch a movie. Or just come over and "hang out". He'd probably REALLY like the third option.</p>
<p>(im glad i hit 1100 on this post)</p>
<p>yes u should ask him out. it should happen more often in this world.</p>
<p>(im a guy)</p>
<p>Zing^^^^^^^^</p>
<p>Being asked out by a girl is very flattering and may even make the person more interested. personally i would be pleased and i mean 1 date? 9 times out of 10 the guy will never say no if he is asked out by a woman..i dont think..i mean i wouldnt</p>