Boyfriends/ Girlfriends and College.

<p>I've begun to get quite fed up with the matter of guys and school. Everyone throughout my high school years were dating and fooling around. I felt angry and stupid at the same time to be practically the only person not dating and "hooking up" with guys. I don't think that it's worth it to risk getting distracted by a bunch of immature high school guys that are probably going to go to the crapiest colleges anyways. I'm just wondering if anyone is having the same problem coping with these frustrations/temptations.
Thanks,
Trixee.</p>

<p>Lol just find a guy who's diehard about getting into Harvard. Then you'll have something in common.</p>

<p>The only thing is, there is no one here that even wants to go to college!!!</p>

<p>why are you so bitter?</p>

<p>So who says this "guy" has to be interested in going to college? Are you saying you cannot have fun with someone who doesn't aspire to what you do? Sometimes a fun person and an intellectual make a good time. Open your mind.</p>

<p>no kidding. unless you are already in harvard, don't "look down" on other people.</p>

<p>You mention tempted and other words that indicate you really want to be different but are afraid.</p>

<p>Trixee15: I totally understand where you're coming from, though maybe not exactly due to my own personal reasons. Honestly, my parents are like,"You'll never do well in high school (or college) if you have a b/f now...he'll distract you, you'll only be waiting for his phone calls, school will become secondary, etc. etc. etc." However, some of my friends do have boyfriends (or girlfriends, depending on whether its my guy or girl friend.) So, I cant really date. </p>

<p>And really, I can see why. Most high school guys (at least the ones at my school) are too immature and only want a girl for one thing. And we all know what that is. Not to say all guys are dumb, or that that's all a guy wants; I know plenty out there (my own guy friends) who would never do that. </p>

<p>But they won't exactly be going to the "crappiest colleges" out there. I know that the ones I know want to go to schools like NYU, Columbia, etc. </p>

<p>Maybe just find one who is like you, has the same goals as you, and is relatively mature. If you're lucky, they'll be plenty around for you (and at least ur parents might actually let you be with them, too.)</p>

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nless you are already in harvard, don't "look down" on other people.

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<p>getting into harvard doesn't give you the right to look down on people. take a look at that bar scene in good will hunting.</p>

<p>dude, I love that scene. Anyways finding a gf/bf won't necessary hinder you, find someone who will support you and make all the stress that much easier. Us guys aren't as bad as you make us out to be.</p>

<p>You need to lighten up and start enjoying life a little Trixie!!! High school can be very fun and memorable at the same time if you succeed in balancing your social and academic life. I would suggest trying to be a bit more optimistic, going to some school dances or parties, and keeping an open mind so you will find an interesting guy you may want to hang out with, like me!!! :)</p>

<p>^</p>

<p>do you find him attractive in an innate way</p>

<p>ThE<em>GuRl</em>NeXt_DoOr is a guy</p>

<p><a href="http://www.college.harvard.edu/student/organizations/orgdetail?id=167%5B/url%5D"&gt;http://www.college.harvard.edu/student/organizations/orgdetail?id=167&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p>

<p>Woohoo NM Club! One of my closest friends started it! Its one of the best clubs because they have cheesecake factory desserts at the meetings!! mmmmm</p>

<p>Yum! Ok, I know this is stupid, but what is this club about? does it give people info about harvard or is it for people who are already accepted? Thanks for the advice by the way guys, and the link. :)</p>

<p>Trixee.</p>

<p>Its a club for Harvard students. I have no idea why Byerly posted it, except that your profile says you're from NM.</p>