<p>Just to reiterate, as a parent who's not bringing a child: I understand how important this may be to your family unit, but please consider the other people moving in! I know that I would be paranoid and unable to enjoy my time with my kid if I had to worry about not stepping on a just-barely-not-a-toddler.</p>
<p>I'm sorry, but I think that this is just as inconsiderate as having a 4 year old cry in a theater and refuse to leave because "it's a family thing".</p>
<p>I have to agree with Chedva about the safety issue, especially at a school with large enrollment or poor parking. Moving boxes, tight stairwells, large heavy fire doors opening (remember, these have only a small window at adult head height), excited people moving quickly, frayed tempers, especially if it's hot... any one of these can be a cause of serious injury.</p>
<p>Additionally... don't forget the boredom factor for a younger sib. The experience may lose it's appeal very quickly.</p>
<p>And one more note... don't bring the dog either. The amount of untended goldens, stepped on beagles and heel nipping pugs that I've encountered is astonishing. And before you bash me, I'm a dog lover. I've got a Newfoundland and a retired racing greyhound at me feet here, but would you want to be schelpping 60 pound boxes upstairs and encounter my 150 pound beast coming down?</p>
<p>Forget the little ones and the four legged companions. Bring a hand truck instead. Everyone will be happier.</p>
<p>All: I really appreciate everyone's comments. My D actually wants her sister there. My husband and my mother both agree. So, here's the compromise. Since my D is moving in early, we'll take her sister. I have a close friend that lives 10 minutes away. If it gets nuts, I'll take the little one over there! The little one will be 5 in Nov so she's not very "toddlerish" anymore. There won't be that many moving in early so it might not be a zoo. So, thanks again for all the advise. Since my family has overrulled me, I'll be glad to know that my nearby friend can help in a pinch. Thanks.....</p>