<p>I am a transfer student at a four year university now. I went to community college for two years and lived with my parents. I was raised very sheltered and wasn't really allowed to have a social life until now. I am also very very shy. I don't know anyone in this town and I haven't had much luck with making long term friends. What is some advice on making good friends? I've noticed that most people that are my age here already have their group of friends since they've been here since freshman year and so they aren't as eager to make new friends. I've tried joining a club or two but it's just awkward to go alone. I feel that my biggest problem is I don't know how to approach people. I am in a male dominated field and so most of my classmates are guys which just makes it worse because I'm even more shy in that area. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.</p>