Sigh, I was trying to be helpful. I still cannot understand how it costs $1000, How does she need a minivan worth of stuff? Maybe it would help in the future just to bring less stuff? It’s not like you need a lot of bulky winter clothing and heavy bedding in Santa Cruz, like many other kids may need. Car rentals in California are usually quite cheap, if you get a regular car not a minivan. Yes, we took my daughter to her school in a minivan. We also had 4 people in the car, and a week’s worth of luggage for the 3 of us not being dropped off, plus some vacation equipment. And a lot of bulky stuff she would not have brought if space had been tighter. Her stuff fit in a much smaller vehicle on the way back.
I was also trying to be helpful with the suggestion that perhaps she could find a roommate with similar needs and then there would be peace and quiet in her room, not parties. But you ignored that idea, which I thought was quite a good one. There are apparently even several singles in her apartment. Can nothing be done to move her from a double to a single? Her roommates cannot see her suffering?
Oh, and you also ignored my thought that whatever some far-away psychologist may or may not think, if she had medical documentation of her panic attacks from the current housing situation. which is not a normal reaction, that might influence the administration. So just go ahead and ignore people and then fling insults.