“Stranger danger” and “date rape” are two very different scenarios and ideally students should have some training in dealing with both. It will stand them in good stead their whole life.
When I went to college, back in the dark ages, I went to a women’s self defense presentation given by a policewoman. Some things I learned were how to walk purposefully and briskly, noticing everything and everyone around you, and how to use common objects for self defense.
Carrying a closed umbrella? Carry it pointing upward, ready to poke into an assailant if necessary. Carrying car keys? Hold them in your hand so that you have one single key clutched facing forward, ready to poke into assailant’s eye or under side of their chin. I don’t think I would have realized the vulnerability of the underside of the chin without that class.
At that time one of the suggestions was carrying a whistle or alarm. I guess some car remotes do that but if the student drives an economy model like mine, they don’t have a noisemaker.
All of this, rather than making me fearful, or emboldening me in a foolish way, helped me in situations where I sometimes found myself. Being at that time still young and stupid, the class did not stop me from getting into situations that were better avoided, but did help me stay safe. Sometimes, regardless of your best intentions, you end up on a bus alone at night, or have to walk through a certain neighborhood later than planned, when it is deserted.
I thought Krav Maga looks very interesting but not sure we’ll have access to classes where we live. I’m thinking in my old age, I’m ready for a refresher course. It was very empowering.
On the date rape scene, I have emphasized to my D the importance of staying sober, or at least having one sober companion, not going into frat houses, never letting her drink out of her sight, and going right to the police if she’s been assaulted. I understand that colleges, I think by law, have to do their own investigation, but it essentially a police matter. Also, immediately request assistance from whatever Rape Victim assistance is available.