Nice 'tude. You’ve been mostly dealing with adults here. Might help to consider our thoughts. Big hint: the Ivies like open mindedness.
Just keep in mind that adults usually have more informed opinions that the kids on this website. @lookingforward in particular is a big asset to this website; respect his/her opinion and move on if you do not care for it. Getting mad at each other on this forum is simply useless and a waste of time. This is a website to listen to and learn from others. If you signed up for this website to ask genuine questions, good on you. If you signed up to disregard opinions, that’s another story. Keep an open mind and take others’ opinions for what they are worth. Good luck with your endeavors.