I also think that depositing at one then withdrawing because you need to visit is not the same as being on a waitlist. You are still playing games.
@My5Kiddos Sounds like you should have visited and gotten FA info submitted sooner. If you delayed on those things, your lack of planning is not a reason to break the rules. You have 3 weeks to visit before the deadline, and I’d assume they will give you FA info in that time period, too.