<p>I was actually going between applying ED to Carleton or Oberlin, so I know that this is a really tough decision!</p>
<p>My "pro" list in favor of Oberlin looked something like this: culturally alive, always would have an event to go to, highly respected campus art museum plus a museum studies intensive (big deal for me because I'm considering art history/museum work), history of political activism, just about the right size, ease of double (or even triple!) majoring, opportunities to continue music, and the town. The last one might seem odd to some people, but I spent two weeks on Oberlin's campus for the Baroque Performance Institute, and the town had everything I wanted. A cheap dime store, a great bakery, a wonderful inexpensive Chinese restaurant, a fabric and vintage clothing store... It was small, but it was quite nice.</p>
<p>But the "con"s for Oberlin soon overshadowed its considerable pluses. There is little to no political diversity on campus and debate seems to take place exclusively between left and more left. I'm liberal, but I would like to be exposed to reasonable political voices from all sides of the spectrum in college. Another downside was the alleged rift between Conservatory and college. The tour guides I talked to claimed it was "getting better," but students I talked to online told me that it was a major feature of life. The town was wonderful, but the surrounding area... you're kind of stuck if you want to really get away, cheaply. And the classes I visited (200-level history and art history classes) weren't all that challenging and I wasn't very impressed with the professors. It made it seem like the ease of double or triple majoring was merely because the classes were not very demanding.</p>
<p>I ultimately chose Carleton for a number of reasons. I was consistently blown away by the classes I visited. I loved the campus and, while Northfield is not as nice as Oberlin, I loved that the Twin Cities were in reach. The students I talked to were overwhelmingly enthusiastic about their college choice (in contrast to the Oberlin students I found). In Oberlin I felt like people were cynical and jaded for the sake of being cynical and jaded. There was no such feeling at Carleton... Instead, I sensed that underlying the "Carleton quirkiness" was a real, refreshing optimism, a love of life and of learning new and strange things and putting them to good use. Carleton may not have the music scene of Oberlin, but it certainly has more than enough to do and in more diverse areas than just politics and music. The convocations (weekly talks by visiting respected persons) feature mathematicians and physicists and conservatives just as often as they feature musicians and race-theorists and liberals. There are so many silly, zany traditions (the Druid society, broomball tournaments, ice-sculpting contests, Late Night Trivia and the late night breakfast before finals, Schiller... I could go on and on) that just sound like a blast. And there was just that "it" factor, where I walked along the paths of the arb and felt like I could belong there. </p>
<p>At any rate, which ever one you choose will be wonderful. Both are great schools, with lots of opportunities. Congratulations on your acceptances! Happy decision-making!</p>