@Coloradomama
A lot of the things you’ve mentioned have changed a good deal since back then, and you also omit the huge positives of Boston.
It should also be noted that Cambridge would be considered a suburb of Boston, especially as you get farther out from Central / Harvard Square.
A typical college student will not care about the minute differences in quality of the symphony or theatre. Most will likely never go to the former, and Boston theatre is plenty fine and is still a luxury most students won’t utilize.
Move-in day is good to be aware of, but again, isn’t really relevant to the experience of a city over the course of a full year.
When it comes to art museums, Northeastern students get in free to the MFA and art surrounded by plenty. The MFA is huge. There’s also the Isabella Stewart Gardner museum a few blocks away and the museum of science, where there are often school sponsored free trips.
The Charles is now one of the cleanest urban rivers in the US thanks to a huge effort by the city over the past decades. So clean we have tourists on it now. A nice cheap activity is renting a kayak on it during the summer, or even better, running along the Esplanade for free.
As far as crime, that’s all very anecdotal, and at odds with what I have experienced. I don’t know a single person who’s gotten mugged. The only normal thing in Boston right now that I know of is bike theft. None of my friends have seen a gun, let alone heard gunshots.
You mention a lot of car problems, but virtually no students own a car in Boston thanks to the amazing public transportation with the T, a good bus system, extended commuter railways, and central Amtrak stations. Not to mention that the central artery is completely underground since after The Big Dig. As a student in Boston, you won’t even see rush hour traffic, and will often likely walk on top of it on parks in the North End without realizing it at first. To me, if you have to own a car in a city, it’s not a good city.
The amount of academics in the city and the youth is a big appeal for many as well. The abundance of college cheap food is nice as well, given that over 400,000 students are in the metro area, 250K in Boston proper.
In the end, the student experiences are distinctly different. For anyone looking for a city experience, Boston will beat out Cleveland easily, speaking as someone who had that as an important part of the college search. That doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy Cleveland and that it doesn’t offer much of value, but if you’re comparing, NEU/Boston is much more of a city experience than CWRU/Cleveland.