@ucbalumnus True, and I also have another sister who was like the polar opposite of the “hafta go to Harvard” attitude (more like “do I want to go to college? I guess I’ll try it…”) to learn from too. She did the whole start at community college then transfer to State U (all commuting) thing. My parents did help her a lot with school (but certainly not sticker Ivy League money), and she had a partial scholarship.