Understood on UVA and I love Va Tech. It’s gorgeous and has the highest rated food in the country. Food is underrated and you’d be amazed at how many don’t eat well and get low blood sugar. It’s not in the city but it has EVERYTHING one can need there.
Understand the Va schools from an ROI and I get Pitt. It meets everything but the cost comparison. But family matters.
I think if Rochester comes off like it appeared to, that’s where a CWRU can come in to replace. More merit potential. Even Ohio State, which I mentioned, is only several hours from Pittsburgh, an easy flight or drive from NOVA and will be less expensive with merit and more urban than others mentioned.
It’s interesting about you and your wife. I read a stat - not sure how true but the majority of engineering majors aren’t in engineering jobs. My son’s second summer was in a non engineering job. I asked him why they wanted him for it. He said they want people who think like engineers.
Now he’s in a full time engineering role.
Your son can spend $20k to $90k plus and potentially end up in the same job. My son did - working with kids from the school he turned down. He chose his for housing (own room, shared with one bathroom) - not to save $$ but I just got lucky :). Stroking the big check 2x a year can’t be easy.
So I get - your ROI component isn’t hard and tight but I do think the in or near city is important and I get the Va schools - but Penn State, Purdue - both gorgeous but don’t meet that qualifier. Purdue from an ROI standpoint - outstanding.
U of A outstanding and for you a flight instead of a drive. ASU too. And along with U of SC the top Honors college.
Best of luck whatever you decide. There’s no right answer. Every family is different. I’m full pay but set a hard budget. If an acceptance didn’t deliver on cost, it was gone. So schools like UMD and Pitt that came with no merit - gone.
Ps - engineering admissions isn’t hyper competitive. But you’ve selected a list that is. And when you want merit, you have to go to the right schools. Kids that last in engineering are top notch. It has a high failure rate - one study says 60%- so there’s no dopes. And if he ends up in a different major, that’s great too.
These schools will work.
Your son will do great admission wise. But if you truly have a budget, don’t waffle. The $$ are very real. Best of luck.