<p>@calmom </p>
<p>Your “majoring in unafraid” tone is frankly condescending—and an overreaction to what you and others here seem to perceive as rudeness on OP’s part. She has expressed understandable concern and not a little stress, but to go on for five paragraphs about “rethinking goals” and “reacting in a fragile way”… A little more care with tone and words would, I think, be appreciated by the OP.</p>