I’m sorry that things did not work out as you wanted. You have 4 acceptances, 3 waitlists, and 7 rejections. Based on my experience with my DD, those are fairy typical results. (She had 5,5,5 last year) your list was heavily weighted with reaches so it seems reasonable that your results were weighted that way. I know you are sad right now, feel like you have wasted your time trying hard, and that is OK, and it will take a few days for that to go away. When you are able, start to think about the options you do have. Which of your acceptances offers the best education for your money? Will you accept positions on any of the waitlists and write letters of continued interest?
Please know that you are not alone in your disappointment, many others are as well. My DD went thru the same thing last year, felt like she wasted her time working so hard for grades and scores, high stats and rejected from UPenn and (was a multi gen legacy). She threw that Penn sweatshirt right into the trash! She is now very very happy where she ended up. She now feels like it’s where she was meant to be,