A 1980/3.5 is below-the-line for almost every school you mentioned. Including UNH (which I don’t think you can consider a safety, maybe a high-match at best).
Some of them are really very far out of reach for you (NYU, Middlebury, BU, BC). I think you need to be looking at a very different class of school (one which accepts 70% or more of applicants for example). Anything very competitive 40% acceptance or less is really going to be tough for you.