<p>i think if you want to talk about your dad, talk about in the additional info/optional section. also, don't send a resume (i think) the schools have sections for you to show your ec's. typically if you want to give a resume, give to the interviewer or your counsellor (my opinion). Its a good idea to check with the admissions offices, though.</p>
<p>"do you think I should focus on my dad's sudden illness and how it has helped me grow and mature? It came as a sudden shock and has greatly affected me."</p>
<p>Just keep it positive and upbeat. Don't make it a pity plea. Demonstrate maturity and growth, also, before focusing on this very upsetting event in your life, have you looked into any upbeat, equally formative events that wouldn't run the risk of seeming like a clich</p>
<p>Shoot for 2200+ btw.</p>