<p>Saer, I currently have a kid who is a sophmore at Choate. He started last year as a freshman. </p>
<p>Not sure how "showcase" weekends are different than normal weekends.</p>
<p>As for the tour. When we looked at the school, they split up the parents and the kids. Both of our tours were one on one with the tour guide, although I think if they get very busy you may be paired up with another kid.</p>
<p>I expect you will be taken through the dining room, the science center and a dorm room. However, you should feel free to ask to see something you have a particular interest in. For example, if you are really in to theater, ask to be taken through the PMAC. If you are a swimmer or water polo player, ask of you can see the pool. Although your guide is on a schedule and doesn't have unlimited time to take you around, in most cases I am sure they will try to accomodate you. Remember, the primary purpose of these tours is to enable you to decide if the school is a good fit for you, so if you live to paint it's probably a good idea to see what kind of art facilities the school has.</p>
<p>As far as questions you should ask - I assume you mean of your tour guide. Honestly, I think you should focus on getting a "student's eye" perspective of the school. Questions like: (i) What's there to do on weekends? (ii) How much homework to you have a night and is it hard to get it all done? (iii) What's it like living in a dorm? (iv) Do you mostly hang out with the kids in your dorm or are your friends people on your team, kids you do the same extracurricular activities with, etc? Is there a lot of dating at school? </p>
<p>Questions about financial aid, school policies, academic requirements are probably better directed to the person who interviews you.</p>
<p>Finally, although you need to be on your toes during your interview, and obviously need to present yourself well, you should try to relax, have fun and really think about whether this is a place you can see yourself living for the next four years.</p>
<p>BTW - My kid has been very happy at Choate and I think would say that most of the kids are as nice as they seem.</p>