<p>@bowtie, I know just what you mean, and that is very much how he feels. And, that is how we raised him — everyone has something, and this is just your something. We try to operate by a simple question “Do you want to do this” followed by “Then we’ll find a way to make it work”. I thought his fierce independance and strong will are good things to highlight, but he has to “go there” to explain it thoroughly. We’ll see what he decides. His issues have helped shape him, but certainly that is not "all " of him.</p>