Several more questions to all of you 2023 parents: I am trying to determine the importance of squeezing in a couple more school visits and sample lessons for D this fall, or possibly some Skype lessons if a visit is out of the question in terms of time or money.
Here are my questions: Did you get around to all of the schools your child applied to for a visit prior to applying? If not, did you feel adversely impacted by not having a sample lesson at some of the schools your child applied to? (Impact on either admission or scholarship funding…) Did you do any remote lessons via Skype, and how did those go?
Here’s where we are: We’ve worked hard to narrow down a list that initially had about 30 “possibles” on it. D has done 6 sample lessons in person, and visited 3 other schools where she did not have a sample lesson. However, there has been some rearranging of the “short list” and her current list of 9 (which hopefully may fall to 7 or 8) now includes 4 which she has neither visited nor done a sample lesson. (Of the other 5, she has 3 where she visited and did a lesson and 2 with a visit, but no sample lesson (although at one of those she did a three-week program, so it was an extended “visit” it just wasn’t meeting actual faculty).
Obviously in an ideal world we’d go everywhere, but she’s had a busy summer of 7 weeks of full time music study, with no time for extra travek. Both time and money are limiting factors in the fall, especially given that we could have a lot of auditions to budget for after prescreens.
If it matters, of the 4 we haven’t been to, one is a university with a school of music, 2 are conservatories attached to universities , and one is an independent conservatory. There is potential for merit aid at all four of them. All of these involve flights and two require hotels. Should we prioritize several or not worry about it at this point?
(As background, D is a vocalist. Getting a “feel” for the campus and the teacher is pretty important to her – she seems to have trouble gleaning much meaningful info from school websites. It might help us narrow her applications a bit if she visited and didn’t love it – that actually happened at a top school with wonderful facilities but what seemed to us like a weird vibe, and we were relieved to definitively cross it off the list. Also, she’s a bit shy and reserved when she’s not performing, so not sure if she will come across as well on Skype OR be able to get as good a sense of the teacher. On the other hand, she has some good accomplishments on paper and once she starts singing, it’s all good, so maybe they will cut her some slack if she doesn’t shine on Skype, and perhaps she’ll be able to tell more about them on Skype than I think!)
Any advice you have would be most welcome!