Hi everyone typically a lurker but decided to create an account and contribute. Over the Christmas break I’ve finished my bs applications and would say I’m done with the application process, but I’m starting to get cold feet about submitting. I want boarding school and think it would be an amazing opportunity but it would be such a large change. Anyone else get nervous about submitting too but glad they did in the end? Would love to hear what bs has done for you or your family.
Now is not the time to think about whether to attend or not - you will need to make that choice after M10. For now, you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.
I’d like to add that I very much applaud the time management - I still have half the essays that I’m yet to write 
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Thanks for the reply! I guess that’s true this decision could definitely be made for me on M10 lol. Good luck with your essays! (I love writing so it wasn’t unbearable for me- definitely not related to time management lol)
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Imo, one of the best things about applying to BS is that you get to think about what you want your high school experience to be. How do you want to learn? What kind of environment/classmates do you want? How will you spend your time out of class? Who do you think you are and what would you like to be?
When you get to go through this process, you get to focus on finding the best place for you. See where you get in. Hopefully, you’ll be able to visit. It’s possible that you’ll decide that staying home is your best option. But maybe not!
The idea of going away to school can be rather daunting. If you think that’s because you’ll miss the nurture of home, you may prefer schools that have very strong community or housing in smaller family type units.
It’s good you are thinking about the outcome and not just getting swept up in the application process. You are making the most of the process!
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I’m also getting really nervous because I’m applying to 10th grade which doesn’t have that many acceptances, and I don’t think there’s really anything that special about me like no outstanding sports or music, no special background. I’m just really good at Classics and Certamen and nothing else soooooo idk. I also don’t have a strong relationship with any of the AOs or teachers either.
I have the same situation as you don’t worry though you’re probably better off than me. But it is not too late to build a relationship with some of the admissions officers.
You don’t need strong relationships with admissions officers or faculty to gain acceptances to boarding schools. In fact, I doubt it makes a bit of difference for the vast majority of applicants. The exception would be a coach for a varsity team you’ve targeted.
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Hey I’m applying for 10th grade too! Just curious are you a repeat or just a “regular” 10 grade applicant? I’m also kind of in your boat where there is nothing majorly special about me. I’m good at the sports I play and could help the team but am definitely not gonna be a star player. I’m hoping with my app as a whole it’s enough to get me in though.
That’s 100% true I was just giving them a recommendation since they mentioned not having a close relationship with an AO.
I am a repeat, was waitlisted last year, but have a drastically different (and I think better) application than last year. Better recs, better essays, + my main interest changed
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Oh cool! I’m not a repeat myself but am a little jealous that you’ve been through the process before and know what to expect and how to improve. Best of luck throughout this process!!
I didn’t really decide to re-apply until early November though, so it has been a rushed process. sometimes I do still feel I’m grasping in the dark although I applied last year, I just really hope I get in this time although it’s a really low chance.
As of November I was 100% about applying.
Complete 180 during december, and talked myself out of it, and as of 2 hours ago, I’ve changed my mind yet again and have decided to work on my application, only because I knew I’d regret not applying. I most definitely relate to this thread.
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I think staying positive throughout this is the best thing to do and maybe you can manifest an acceptance, it only takes one! You’re definitely dedicated though if you just restarted this whole process!
This is incredibly comforting to hear honestly.
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