<p>Here’s the deal, from my perspective: it’s not about the simple fact of adversity. It is about what was accomplished, despite. When it comes to the Ivies, many kids with awful family challenges have accomplished much, taken on their own goals, started to make something of themselves that comes through. </p>
<p>The CA and supps are going to give you a chance to show more than you did here- and that “more” will matter. Accomplishments, responsibilities, impact. Think about how you will present your picture, see what the CA and supps ask. Remember, it’s going to be about who YOU are, how you show that. </p>
<p>The GC can explain much of your home situation. I’m never sure about the advice to use the essays to detail problems. Many kids have trouble doing that effectively. Remember, the goal is to show your strengths, the attributes the top colleges look for. Best wishes.</p>