<p>Can you PAY $25,000 per year for your son to attend college? If not, he needs to look for schools where he would garner GUARANTEED merit aid that would bring the cost down to something you CAN afford.</p>
<p>The $25k family contribution will be an expectation unless your child happens to get a merit award that encompasses that amount.</p>
<p>I agree with the poster upstream who wonders why OOS publics are acceptable (with costs that will likely be double, and with little potential for need based aid) than your own instate public universities. Many instate publics have honors colleges with competitive admission. Hopefully your son’s three part SAT is well above 1800 because an 1800 would likely NOT make the cut for those honors college programs (or acceptance into an Ivy school,in my opinion).</p>
<p>Division III schools cannot give athletic scholarships. A good chunk of the most competitive D-III schools also give only need based aid. You would be expected to pay that $25k family contribution. Also, many of those schools also have a student contribution in addition.</p>
<p>Division I schools would require a mighty strong player to be a recruited athlete. It’s possible, but there is no guarantee, as you know. Plus, if the school costs $50,000, and your kiddo gets a half athletic scholarship, you are still facing the same $25,000 payment out of pocket.</p>
<p>You need to figure out what you can afford. Can you really afford a $50,000 or $60,000 college, when you are saying you cannot afford to pay $25,000 a year? </p>
<p>If your kiddo really has competitive stats for an Ivy applicant, look to places where he could get guaranteed significant merit aid based on the SAT/ACT score and GPA.</p>