<p>Look, I’m going to be honest with you. Reading through this, it just doesn’t seem like Amherst is the right place for you. I actually made an account just to post this. Don’t get me wrong, Amherst is a fantastic school, but at this point in the college search, it’s not about anything intellectual anymore; that part’s over. It’s about the feeling of “fit.” And you don’t seem to have gotten that as much from Amherst.</p>
<p>Personally, hailing from a two-college town with LAC professors for parents, Amherst doesn’t really have a better reputation than some of the other schools on your list, particularly Davidson, and the only one I would be hesitant to attend myself is Denison. For me, due to monetary concerns, it came down to three schools, and I’m proud to say I will be attending the College of Wooster in the fall. I didn’t make the decision intellectually–I loved the other two schools, too, but Wooster just felt RIGHT. And as far as pedigree is concerned, I must say I’m extremely disappointed with some of the posters on this forum. I firmly believe that Wooster is as great as Grinnell, better than Oberlin, and beyond them both for me. Pedigree does not matter, and when LACs are concerned, that is particularly the case. You seemed to get that towards the start of this discussion, but you’ve been bullied into submission. </p>
<p>Based on your initial description, I think you feel the best about Kenyon, a school that has an amazing pedigree here in the Midwest, as good as Amherst or Davidson. Stop agonizing over the intellectual aspects of this process. I was a nervous wreck with all of that until this past weekend, when I realized that intellectually, all of the schools I was accepted and waitlisted at, even beyond the three it came down to, were perfect for me intellectually. Wooster was just perfect for me emotionally, too. It FIT. </p>
<p>With you it’s a little complicated with the money and being an international student, which is why I personally get the feeling that Kenyon is right for you. It’s the cheapest next to Denison, which I don’t get the feeling is right for you, and you had only good things to say about it. If you haven’t already, watch the terrific film “Liberal Arts,” which is set at Kenyon and gives you a nice feel for the culture.</p>
<p>Your concern about Amherst is telling. Remember that it’s quite a bit bigger than your average LAC, and can be as pretentious as Oberlin (don’t get me wrong, I love both, I just don’t think either are right for the OP). </p>
<p>Whatever your decision, make sure it’s not based on pedigree, and doesn’t stress your resources too thin. These are all fine schools, so going into a lot of debt for one over another seems a bit ludicrous. Go with fit now; that’s what matters at this point.</p>
<p>Best of luck to you in the future! You’ve got some great options (and generous parents). </p>