Your parents are pressuring you to drink? Speechless here…
Anyway, S1 is going away next year, and also doesn’t drink. He is also an athlete, and quite social, but simply can’t get on board with the behavior that seems to go along with drinking. You will meet people like that at college, if you seek them out.
Put another way, if a group/school/organization demands that you drink, then you are in the wrong place.