I go to a party school, and I have no interest in drinking. I was afraid that I might not meet people who feel the same way, but you’ll find people who don’t either or those who respect your decision. I didn’t drink much in high school. Never really saw the reason for it. My parents never pushed me to do so. Part of the reason I prefer being sober is because my parents rarely drink, and when they do it’s a glass of wine with dinner.
Essentially, what I’m saying is even though a lot of people may drink in college, you don’t have to. It’s entirely your choice, and you’ll find people who respect that and like you for who you are. And your parents shouldn’t pressure you to do anything you aren’t comfortable with. Seems pretty ridiculous to me.