<p>I tried posting before, but the site appeared to have eaten my post, so I apologize if this shows up twice.</p>
<p>My oldest is a sophomore at a rigorous, well-regarded public high school. So far, she has thrived there--all honors classes with As in everything except Alg. II. She got a near perfect score on her PSAT (the points she missed were in, you guessed it, math). She's good in writing (just got back from Breadloaf), art (a couple of awards) and music.</p>
<p>She was put in several AP classes for next year, but after looking at the curriculum, decided that the AP Lit course didn't look as interesting as another honors English course. Her guidance counselor, who thinks its her job to get the smart kids into the Ivies, is concerned that she'd be making a big mistake not to take the hardest class available to her. I am not being cynical. I get this. But I also get that my DD really loves learning for the fun of it and is very tired of just doing the "right things" and positioning herself to get into a top school. She says she wants to choose her challenges, rather than having a set menu of them thrust at her, if that makes sense. Most of all, she doesn't want to lose her joy in learning.</p>
<p>She has done a couple of those college match surveys, including this one, and the schools that come up consistently are Princeton and Stanford. She's a triple legacy at Stanford, but I'm pretty sure schools like that won't take a kid like her. In any case, she wants a small liberal arts school where she can study both music and English. </p>
<p>I am somewhat conflicted because I don't want her to make a decision now that diminishes her opportunities later, but I have to believe there are other people like her and that some colleges will recognize that they are smart, even if they take courses that interest them, rather than courses that make them look good.</p>
<p>I'm probably on the wrong site, but surely I'm not the only one with a kid like this?</p>