<p>Okay, I am going to give you a perspective of the “non traditional” cc parent.</p>
<p>I grew up in an upper middle class home, graduating HS in the 70’s. Yes, back then, of couse we all know applying to a college was not much more than filling out a form and sending it in. (check enclosed) I am no longer upper middle class, not even middle class economically.</p>
<p>Fast forward to 2007, my D is a senior in HS and I am now “low income.” I have no knowledge about college admissions! Why would I NOT be suckered in by the mailings? We were flattered, “wow,<br>
xxx elite college/university must be interested!” While that is nice that those of you that ALREADY had the knowledge that this was just a mass mailing/marketing campaign, for us it worked. We were WOWED by the beautiful brochures and the personal e-mails, that they were sending JUST HER!</p>
<p>I looked at the beautiful landscapes and architecture of these places and was sad that my daughter would never see them. She had worked so hard in school and would never experience anything like this. I used to hide them so she would not get her hopes up.</p>
<p>Then I found cc while D was at Gov Honors school for the summer. Terms such as “need based” “merit based” “Fafsa” etc. to me was like reading a foreign language.</p>
<p>Thanks to the cc parents, I learned, and learned quick. It was a blink of an eye between July 2007 when I assumed D would go to a CC, and November 31st, when she became a Questbridge match for Amherst. I cried, and I still cry, that my D is where she is at. In a four month period, my D COULD attend a school like the brochures I had hid from her.</p>
<p>When I hear terms used in this thread such as “only the most naive” “every student knows that trick” or “who would fall for that?”… Well, that would be me., I thought a top tier school was unattainable for my D. I would have assumed Community college, or as a reach, UGA with the Hope scholarship funds would be the best that she could have got. Thank you cc posters (sybbie and northstarmom.) And, to the 52 lbs. of glossy brochures that all the schools sent us! (yes, we weighed them) that first made me think of looking higher for DD.</p>