<p>hahahahaa wow how is anyone supposed to answer this? it’s such a broad question, parties can be anyway you want depending on who you associate with. If you are a antisocial freak, then your chances of getting laid are slim. If you are average to above and know how to talk to the opposite sex, then expect good results lol</p>
<p>I don’t go to parties. But from what I hear, most of them are like you said; people just get drunk, talk to random people they don’t know, and try to get laid.</p>
<p>Also, being Asian myself, I hope you’re not one of those Asians who want only white girls. Because you won’t get them.</p>
<p>I know plenty of asian guys with white girls. One hot white girl I know has only ever been with asian guys, in fact.</p>
<p>This thread proves that you are probably nerdier than you think. That’s fine and all but why don’t you pretend this is 20 years ago, the internet doesn’t exist, and find the answers to your own silly questions in real life through your own experiences.</p>
<p>You never know parties are like cause it differs for every party and school. If it’s fraternities some are more into games like screw the dealer, pong/beirut and socializing while others are dancing and socializing. In both cases they have people getting wasted. House parties are the same thing, its either drinking games or dancing or both. Usually the house parties I’ve been to its both and I’ve experienced fraternity parties since I’m in one.</p>
<p>MUST be good-looking and take care of yourself (superb hygiene).
MUST know what you’re doing in bed.
MUST have an interesting personality that enhances and brightens my day - NO abrasive personalities.</p>
<p>Hey, sometimes not being so selective can work to your advantage. One time I decided to date a guy I wasn’t remotely attracted to who was nowhere near my type just because he was nice to me and it went so well we’re getting married in the not too distant future. As it turns out my standards were all backwards. I am really glad I was open-minded. I came to discover a lot of things I didn’t se at first glance.</p>
<p>It doesn’t matter what you are, most people out there don’t care about the race, but if you’re her type she’ll like you. It seems like you’re the type who does care about race and find white chicks to be like a trophy and superior to all other girls.</p>
<p>“Do black people ever get with white girls?” </p>
<p>Ali Larter does it all the time lol… Go watch Obsessed and Heroes oh and I have many white girlfriends, non with an Asian guy, I don’t think it’s because Asian guys are “nerdy”… I’ve seen some that are cool, but I think it’s more the fact that people subconsciously want to be with people that are of their culture and share their values and background. There’s always exceptions though!</p>