I think you need to focus on what you can afford rather than selectivity, and that gets back to your other thread where you said your parents make under $25K a year but own a restaurant and are thinking of buying a $600K house. There’s obviously something wrong with that picture.
Your parents may not be willing to share what their actual financial situation with you, but no school will offer you need based financial aid without digging deep into your parents’ finances. If they own a business, I don’t think you can count on as much need based financial aid as you (or they) may be expecting, so you need to ask them how much (if anything) they are willing to contribute to your college costs and keep your focus on merit aid.
For substantial merit aid, you may have to look at less selective schools where your GPA and test scores exceed those of the average applicant. Do you have a 34 ACT score now or are you hoping to get that score next time you take it? You said 2 months ago that you’d taken it three times and the highest score you’ve gotten is a 31. That’s still a good score and nothing to be ashamed of, but people need to know your actual score now in order to give helpful suggestions on where you might be able to get merit aid.